Thursday, October 10, 2013

Let's get Mushy

How I love my meatball, Let me count the ways. Cheese Alert! 

No But Seriously, I read something once about falling in love with your husband so much more and for un-romantic ways once you have children.  And that is exactly how I feel these days.  I love to watch Steve wrestle with the boys and throw them in the air.  I have fallen more in love with him after seeing what a great dad he is to our children.  And trust me he does not have too many good role models, his age, to look up to.  I used to be worried that Steve wouldn't be affectionate with the boys because him and his father don't hug but he is!  He loves kissing the boys and they are all pretty much obsessed with him.  I met Steve 7+ years ago and things are better than ever.  Trust me we have been through some pretty tough times.  I don't want to elaborate too much but we have had dark moments.  But I wouldn't give up and fought for this relationship and I am so glad I did.  He has given me the 3 best anyone can give someone.  And I am SO grateful.  And he puts up with my crazy, which is great because sometimes my OCD gets the best of me.  And I put up with him being a slob and a worry-wart.  But after all this time he is still the best looking man in the room to me and I am lucky to have him. 

Someone once told me that Steve and I were SO different.  This bothered me for a long time and I couldn't figure out why.  I think it would be weird if I was covered in tattoos and drove a Harley like him - right?  We used to go to dinner with married couples (when we weren't married) and I would feel like our relationship wasn't going to last.  It wasn't anything else said I just somehow felt like we weren't a "couple" enough.  Well, we are still together and some of those married couples aren't.  So basically, it doesn't matter if there is a piece of paper involved.  What matters is how you feel about one another and how hard you want to be with that person.   

Steve and I both have strange extremes in our taste of music.  Steve loves gangster rap especially Rick Ross but also loves Journey.  I love Country and Britney Spears and may have some Michael Bolton on my ipod.  (I'm a dork) So if we both like a song it is extremely rare!  Every couple has a song right?  Well, Our song is Alicia Keys "No One".  I love my meatball with all my heart. <3

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